可能是因為生長在一個傳統的中國家庭, 父母子女之間不容易輕易表達愛意. 而且小時侯父母忙於生活, 很多生活成長所要面對的困難都沒有人給於建議. 其實, 可以的話, 我真的想可以躲在父母的疵蔭之下成長. 每每看到身邊的人有父母關心, 也會很羨慕他們. 所以我很喜歡這首歌, 幻想成是爸爸媽媽對我說的話. (嘻嘻. 很傻吧?!)
緊握緊握的一雙小手
教我有著太多感受
你現在
或是不解這一番心意
留在你童年以後
活著活著是永遠尋求
每個際遇要安心靜候
算了吧
人成長總有一些起跌
長路裡有我在背後
喜歡的不代表佔有
替彼方想多一想
世情易接受 如感迷途
不要徬徨
嘆息收起望以後
路上路上或挫折重重
每每挫敗也許不易受
要記著事事如不可以不必強求
難受處一定有
獨白:
親愛的女兒,今日我要講o既,
你可能永遠都唔會明白,
點解當父母認為愛你愛得過份的時候,
你會覺得我o地愛你愛得唔夠,
假如有一日,當你流住眼淚,
埋怨爸爸媽媽太唔了解你.
當你煩燥不安的時候,
請你靜一靜,想一想.
然後,希望你明白,希望你容忍,
希望你繼續,愛你的爸爸,愛你的媽媽.
喜歡的不代表佔有
替彼方想多一想
世情易接受 如感迷途
不要徬徨 嘆息收起望以後
路上路上或許多引誘
愛意決定你想施或受
這段話 寶寶很想你聽多幾遍
能共你心伴奏
留給最愛女兒的說話
so... soo... sooo... very touched...
ReplyDeleteSometimes it's so hard... I am sure we all have thought, "one day when I become a parent, I will never do that to my kids..." That's why I already decided not to have kids; it's just way too complicated. Not that I am scared of the responsibility, but as a child of my parents, I came to realize what children would expect from their parents. Also, to me, if I want to have kids, I would just adopt one. There are already way too many people on this planet and the ablilty to give someone a life changing experience or even a second chance surely is a blessing from God.
haha....I don't even think I am mature enough to be a mother. And the other thing is -- it is really hurt to give birth.
ReplyDeleteHehe...remember what you say today. I am afraid that I may see your kids with in the next few years...you know, you never keep your promise!