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Strange how much you've got to know before you know how little you know.

成長

睡不著, 燈火都熄掉
心裡有光依然照耀
穿越時空
那回憶, 多燦爛! 閉上眼都看到
從前期待長高, 現在擔心變老
常常會感到寂寥
當初以為成長是種得到, 後來才發現, 原來失去了不少
當聯絡越來越方便, 為何關係變得單薄?
一件玩具, 有禮貌的問候, 不如一個擁抱
每天帶著微笑, 其實快樂很少
表情只剩下符號
當朋友像蒸汽揮發掉,
才知道, 那句"保持聯絡"多重要!

固定伴侶

在我成長的年代, 好多歌也好好聽.

不過用了十年的時間才能體會歌詞的意思, 是不是我太笨?


固定伴侶

共渡渡過幾日才需要
掛起了　永不收起的合照
是愉快哪怕幾多秒　幾多年
長或短都已不緊要

哪怕會是誰　也有最後一個伴侶
卻要碰著誰　才會承認天生一對
情投或意合過　卻像無數花絮
仍難做到了晝夜相對
分享幾多歲　會變固定一對伴侶
愛到哪樣長　才會承認不可失去
平凡亦有情趣　才能天天相對
然後終於變得登對

若是為了感動談戀愛
我所愛　怕多得不可承載
但是平凡人怕感慨　怕等待
然後彼比懶於分開

我不是PS girl

我自問自己擁有扁平的五官, 不出眾的樣子, 也沒有大家口中的camera face. 不過我真的不明白, 為什麼大家覺得我一定不會漂亮?

每當大家看到我的照片, 只有以下三個反應

1. 你個妹?
2. 你整容?
3. Photo shop?

就像今天, 一眾同事一致認定我在FB的相全都經過photoshop的洗禮. 雖然我表明了沒有, 他們還是不相信.

其實大家要知道, 有很多東西是你意想不到. 例如, 我曾經是香港青少年公開攝影比賽的季軍.

女神之翼：開心參與好着數

荷里活電影中，當女性角色有機會識男仔和約會時，她會興奮地說：「這次我有機會上床了！」就算不是這樣直接，都會如此說：「今次有得玩了！」

當然，電影中的女性角色都常有情深款款的，當她們遇上真的很有感覺的男主角時，劇情便會好情深。然而，這些女性角色總有遇上輕巧約會對象的時刻，她們並不真正喜歡那個男性角色，她們開心的是周末有約會，於是，起碼可以開心玩一晚。

我覺得以上的心態很健康，這些女性角色能夠分辨誰可以長久發展，誰可以玩玩，然後，當她們決定去玩時，她們會玩得開心，會覺得很着數。

現實中，常有女孩子告訴我，男人約會了她幾次就冷落她，甚至分手了，她覺得悲傷又憤怒。這種女孩子，就是完全不接受短途關係的人，而最錯的是，她覺得任何男人都只可以與她發展長久關係。她認為短途關係是理虧的。

不如學習荷里活電影中的女性角色的心態，就算再短暫的關係都可以開心參與啊！回想一下，雖然那些男人已經不找你了，但你與他之前的約會，都發生過開心事。真的，開心過，就不是理虧，甚至，是好着數。懂得這樣想，就是懂得享受男女關係。

Don't break the elastic!

In April, Maya Angelou was interviewed by Oprah on her 70+ birthday. Oprah asked her what she thought of growing older.

And, there on television, she said it was 'exciting...'

Regarding body changes, she said there were many, occurring every day.....like her breasts. They seem to be in a race to see which will reach her waist, first.

The audience laughed so hard they cried. She is such a simple and honest woman, with so much wisdom in her words!

Maya Angelou said this:

'I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.'

'I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.'

'I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.'

'I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as 'making a life.'

'I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.'

'I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back...'

'I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.'

'I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.'

'I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug or just a friendly pat on the back...'

'I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.'

'I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.'

家規

我承認我"脾氣臭". 一件事, 如果要我重覆話你三次以上, 你都仲係唔改, 我真係會"發火". 因為, 我expect同緊一個"成人"溝通緊, 而不是一個三歲既小朋友. 而且, this is MY HOME! You have to obey all my rules! 正如返學有校規, 社會有法律, 我屋企亦都有規矩. 唔係閣下中意點就點!

我發火既原因

1. 食晒雪櫃既野, 包括我的午餐和晚餐, 仲要係"without notice"
2. 強辯你無食晒, 因為每一盒其實仲有一啖未食
3. 洗完碗, 成個廚房都係水, 碗有油漬, 爐頭無抺, 成個洗手盆都係泡同菜渣
4. 一日裡面一個人用晒我一卷廁紙
5. 長期將所有衫, 袋, 書, 雜物, 廢紙, 垃圾, 食物......放晒係地下同書枱, 房間長期瀰漫著一股腐臭既味道. 叫你執房, 你卻強辯無用的已經收拾好. 而地上所有的東西你全部都要用而不能收拾.
6. 用完全身鏡唔收. 因為你的全身鏡正正對著我的書枱. 害我老是覺得身後有一股寒氣, 還有一種被"監視"既感覺.
7. 日日敷幾個面膜, 成個洗手盆都係你既一支支, 滿佈青苔既洗面膏, 面膜, 減肥膏, 生晒鏽既髮夾....
8. 成個洗手盆都係你既"面膜漬". 開水開到最大, 搞到成地都係水. 唔用又唔關水喉.
9. 食完朱古力, 地下, 梳化上既碎唔執, 仲用腳指"摔"扁佢. 剪頭髮到成地都係又唔執, 染髮又到成地氈都係
10. 我有嚴重既"職業病", 屋企最好長期處於"無菌狀態". 我真係容忍唔到去完廁所只用清水洗手, 永遠唔用肥皂. 摔完腳指又可以唔洗手就去整壽司, 貓既污糟沙兜又可以放係枱面. 將所有廁所既垃圾扔去廚房......
11. 帶人返我屋企而唔先問過我.
12. 要我煮飯. 煮完之後又因為唔合口味, 挑兩挑又唔食, 走去食零食.
13. 講大話
14. 大話被拆穿, 仍要"死頂"
15. 證據確作, "頂"無可"頂"之時, 扮可憐, 無辜, 同喊!
16. 嘔, 唔去廁所嘔, 要係浴缸嘔, 仲要嘔完唔執. 任由d食物殘渣係浴缸"飄浮"
17. 用完洗頭水/淋浴露永遠都唔換新. 廁紙永遠用剩兩格
18. 返學化full make-up, 低胸加5吋高長boot加勁短熱褲

......................

救命

半夜三點, 我還在為我明天的presentation作準備.

告訴我, 為什麼? 這些字是人讀的嗎?

hyperandrogenism
dexamethasone
adrenocorticotropia

Save The Best For Last

Sometimes you just don't know what's going to happen in the next few seconds;

Sometimes you just can't plan;

Sometimes I thought our chance had passed;

But trust God, he saves the best for last.


Vanessa Williams - Save The Best For Last




Sometimes the snow comes down in June
Sometimes the sun goes 'round the moon
I see the passion in your eyes
Sometimes it's all a big surprise
'Cause there was a time when all I did was wish
You'd tell me this was love
It's not the way I hoped or how I planned
But somehow it's enough

And now we're standing face to face
Isn't this world a crazy place
Just when I thought our chance had passed
You go and save the best for last

All of the nights you came to me
When some silly girl had set you free
You wondered how you'd make it through
I wondered what was wrong with you

'Cause how could you give your love to someone else
And share your dreams with me
Sometimes the very thing you're looking for
Is the one thing you can't see

And now we're standing face to face
Isn't this world a crazy place
Just when I thought our chance had passed
You go and save the best for last

Sometimes the very thing you're looking for
Is the one thing you can't see

Bill Gate's 11 Rules

Love him or hate him, he sure hits the nail on the head with this! Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it!

Rule 2 : The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3 : You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4 : If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

Rule 5 : Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity.. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life H A S NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as M A NY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to A NYTHING in real life.

Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.

有性格

我覺得其實我真的很有性格.

有時候, 有性格不等如有型. 不理會世俗眼光, 忠於自己所喜愛, live for myself, 也是很"有型"的!

我知道, 我這種女孩, 是天生注定和現在所謂的”時尚女性”為敵.

在我眼中, 她們好勝, “持靚行兇”, 追求時尚, 金錢觀重但道德觀薄弱., 不重視內涵. 她們卻覺得老土追不上時尚, 窮, 不善理財.

其實海鷗和魚, 可以和平共存. 不過海鷗往往容不下魚, 一定要先除之而後快.

某以大膽言論而出位的女星, 說出了很討厭的話.

“我以前讀寄宿學校，一班女生一同生活。當時的文化是，大家都不會理睬性格不好的女生。兩星期後，大家便會開會，當面指出她的缺點，她改正過來，大家又會重新接納她。”

有時候, 很多人覺得是缺點的事, 並不一定是不好. 只是在同一個小圈子, 大家所認為是”對”的事情. 好像說, 現今的年青人也覺得吸毒不是一件大事. 那如果我堅持不吸毒, 是不是我”性格不好”? 如果要我為了融入你們所謂的小圈子而做出違背我良心的事, 那你還是不理睬我好了!